Speed and Stability – the true essence of girl power
Posted by Unknown | Tuesday, September 16, 2014 | Posted in Wonder Women
Happy wife key to happy life for men: study
Posted by Unknown | Sunday, September 14, 2014 | Posted in life style, Mens, Wonder Women
What it takes to be an Army wife
Posted by Unknown | Monday, May 26, 2014 | Posted in life style, Wonder Women
BY: SUBHA SUNNY
Meet Britain's oldest prostitute at 85
Posted by Unknown | Tuesday, May 20, 2014 | Posted in Wonder Women
I was molested at 6, raped at 12, reveals Pamela Anderson
Posted by Unknown | Monday, May 19, 2014 | Posted in Wonder Women
Most women spend six hours in preparation before having sex with new partner
Posted by Unknown | | Posted in Life, life style, Wonder Women
Now, internal bra that gives revolutionary breast lift
Posted by Unknown | Thursday, May 15, 2014 | Posted in Life, life style, Wonder Women
7-Year-Old Who Lost Family In Building Collapse Gets Adopted By Nurse Who Treated Her
Posted by Unknown | Monday, April 7, 2014 | Posted in Wonder Women
10 Things Never to Say to a Pregnant Woman
Posted by Unknown | Thursday, April 3, 2014 | Posted in Wonder Women
1. “Were you trying to get pregnant/Did you plan for this?” I don’t know exactly what portion of society deems it okay to ask these kinds of questions, but they translate to “Do you have sex regularly? Are you using birth control? Do you have a basic understand of the human reproductive system?” All of which are entirely unacceptable. Obviously.
2. “Can I touch your belly?” Do you want your hand bitten off? Have you lost your mind? Does the phrase “personal space” have any meaning to you at all? Hell no, you may not rub my belly.
3. “Are you sure there’s just one baby in there?” Positive, ass wipe.
4. “Wow! You still have a ways to go!” You want to tell that to the foot jammed in my ribcage, and my inability to sit/stand/lay down comfortably? Or the fact I have been dealing with this for 33 weeks? I mean, thanks for not blurting out that I’m as big as the broad side of a barn, but I really don’t need to be reminded that I’m not at the finish line quite yet. I’m very much aware of just how many days I have until my due date. Thanks.
5. “You are going for a natural birth, RIGHT?” I don’t remember asking for your opinion, but, okay. I will make every effort to make sure to do what you think was right for you, during my birth.
6. “Isn’t it hard working while you’re pregnant? Shouldn’t you be resting?” Yessss. It is hard. It kills my back. I feel awful. But not all of us are financially stable enough to afford to take time off work when pregnant.
I intend on working until my water breaks (which will probably happen at work).
7. “You know, ____ is bad for the baby.” (*insert horror stories about everything here*)
Coffee, soda, hair dye, GMOs, McDonalds, pizza, nail polish, sandwiches, standing too long, sitting too long, green tea, exercising, not exercising, etc. etc. etc. Apparently all these things are making me a horrible mother already because I do not abstain from almost everything on the planet.
8. “Are you planning on breast feeding?” Would you randomly ask someone in the grocery store if they wax their vagina? Because that’s the same level of personal that we’re dealing with here.
9. “You’re quite hormonal!” Okay, maybe I am just a little crazy/weepy/ragey right now, but that doesn’t invalidate my thoughts and feelings, or mean that something isn’t important, just because I seem to be sobbing endlessly over everything. (The latest Budweiser commercial, for example.)
10. “I thought you didn’t want kids!” Thank you ever so kindly for the reminder of my inability to take a pill every day.
Basically, just hold the door for me and pass the damn chocolate for nine months.
Night-owl women not for long-term relationships
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Read this carefully as night owls, unlike early birds, are less likely to be in long-term relationships and have the same high propensity for risk-taking as men.
"Night owls, both males and females, are more likely to be single or in short-term romantic relationships versus long-term relationships when compared to early birds," said study author Dario Maestripieri, a professor in comparative human development at University of Chicago.
In addition, male night owls reported twice as many sexual partners than male early birds, he added.
The link between the night-owl tendency and risky behaviour could have roots in evolutionary strategies for finding mates.
"From an evolutionary perspective, it has been suggested that the night-owl trait may have evolved to facilitate short-term mating, that is, sexual interactions that occur outside of committed, monogamous relationships," Maestripieri explained.
It is possible that, earlier in our evolutionary history, being active in the evening hours increased the opportunities to engage in social and mating activities, when adults were less burdened by work or child-rearing.
The participants (110 males and 91 females) provided saliva samples to assess their levels of cortisol and testosterone.
The participants also described their own willingness to take risks and gave information about their sleep patterns.
Men had higher cortisol and testosterone levels than women.
But night-owl women had cortisol levels comparable to night-owl and early-morning men.
The study suggests high cortisol levels may be one of the biological mechanisms explaining higher risk-taking in night owls.
According to Maestripieri, preferences for being a night owl or early morning person are due in part to biology and genetic inheritance, but also can be influenced by environmental factors such as shift work or child-rearing.
Gender differences in sleep patterns emerge after puberty and become weaker or disappear after women reach menopause, Maestripieri noted in the study.
The link between the night-owl tendency and risky behaviour could have roots in evolutionary strategies for finding mates, Maestripieri said in the study published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology.
Gay love: Girls who like girls
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Why is being homosexual considered 'criminal'? At least the government suggested so, after reopening Chapter XVI, Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code on December 11, 2013. It effectively criminalised sexual activities "against the order of nature", including homosexuality.
This was a setback for the LGBT rights movement. The government called homosexuals a 'miniscule minority' and this has only spurred on a community that's been fighting for their rights for decades.
While addressing the obvious hurdle that was the recent ruling, Cosmopolitan also tries to debunk common lesbian myths and setting things (that need it) straight once and for all.
Read the complete article on Cosmopolitan India .
In nicest prank ever, waitress gets tip that changes her life
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Fearless: an actress dares to play Delhi gang-rape victim
Posted by Unknown | Wednesday, April 2, 2014 | Posted in Life, Wonder Women
This didn't happen to Japjit Kaur. It happened to another woman: on a cold Delhi night four men raped her, beat her up and inserted an iron rod in her vagina. Kaur played the role of this rape victim. It's a role that haunts and hurts, she says.
Nirbhaya--a Play by Yael Farber, was conceived by the South African playwright and director in the wake of the gang-rape and murder of a 23-year-old paramedic student, which had led to violent protests across India and made headlines across the world.
The play is graphic and shocking, sometimes even numbing. The statement it makes is brutal, just like the real-life incident it narrates. But then, this is not just another drama; the December 16 Delhi gang-rape was not just another incident.
Nirbhaya--a Play by Yael Farber kicks us in the guts. It is that honest.
The gang-rape victim's ordeal is recounted in unsparing detail but the actors use their roles to speak about the sexual violence they suffered themselves. One actor speaks about being gang-raped in Chicago; another actor talks of how her husband set her on fire and took their son away and two others recount being sexually abused as children.
In the course of an online interview to Hindustan Times, Japjit Kaur, who played Nirbhaya, said that this is the "most difficult role I have ever played".
As Nirbhaya, Japjit stands in one corner of the stage, leaning on a prop which symbolises the bus stop. She has been pushed to a corner but still she manages to remain standing -- she becomes a metaphor for courage (nirbhaya is Hindi for fearless), giving the other characters the push they need to break their silence.
"As Nirbhaya, I draw each woman back to their past as I hand them a piece of their history. They narrate their personal stories," Japjit says.
The role, she added, drained her physically and emotionally.
"During the the initial rehearsals, I remember I would stand in a corner leaning against a wall in Delhi while Yael Farber would work on each testimonial. That spot became Nirbhaya's corner, which materialised as the bus stop on stage. I would listen to everything very attentively but not speak for days during the rehearsals."
The long periods of standing took its toll on the actor, leading to pain in the stomach. "Once, I had such severe pain in my stomach for three days in a row that I could barely get up. Though I have come a long way since then, I'm still in the learning process of finding the right balance."
Voice modulation and singing are an integral part of Japjit's role as she did not have a lot of dialogues: "I have tried to portray as much as I could of the victim's private experience through song and music. Nirbhaya sang as there was nothing left to say, words were of no use."
Preparing for Nirbhaya's role, too, wasn't easy.
"When we had begun rehearsals, Yael tried out many exercises with us to evoke certain emotions. For example, one very simple but extremely effective exercise was, while I stood in the middle of the rest of the cast, they tried to push me down to the ground while I had to resist. Emotionally, this was very challenging but it gave me an insight into Nirbhaya's world that night," Japjit says.
According to Jagpit, the play is an attempt to keep the protests against sexual violence going and to shatter the shame-based silence around such incidents. And she is playing her part in sending out the message.
"My job on stage is to stay truthful and to stay connected to the core message which is that enormous damage has been done to our society. Unfortunately, there is no accountability. It's time. The Delhi gang-rape is the reality," Japjit says.
The play premiered at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival in 2013 and then travelled to the Women of the World festival in Southbank London. It was first staged in India over a year later.
"We wanted to bring the play to Delhi because this is where it all happened. Delhi is where the streets rose in protest and demanded justice, demanded change. The wound is still fresh here; the response from the audience was incredible. Numerous people stepped forward and spoke of when they had been violated. They broke their silence. That is pretty much the message we're giving out," Japjit says.
Women's group wants Shashi Tharoor to apologise for lines on Nair women in his 1989 novel
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Women's wing of the Communist Party of India in Kerala has sought an apology from Union minister Shashi Tharoor over some lines he wrote on women of the Nair community in his 1989 book, The Great Indian Novel.
Kerala Mahila Sangham said the Congress MP, seeking a reelection from Thiruvananthapuram, "defamed Nair women by depicting them as immoral.
Tharoor himself is from the Nair community which has dominance in his constituency.
These are the controversial lines from the novel: "In Kerala, the men of Nair community realise that their wives are free to receive them by seeing if another man's slippers aren't outside her door."
The lines appear on page 71 of the book. Tharoor attributes these lines to King Pandu, a character in the Mahabharata, who is speaking to his wife Kunthi.
Indira Raveendran, working president of Kerala Mahila Sangam, claimed Tharoor deliberately tried to defame Nair women by putting the statement into Pandu's mouth.
The Great Indian Novel is a satirical work of fiction written that makes fun of the political class in India. Tharoor mingles politics, mythology, culture and tradition in the novel.
Tharoor's major opponent in Thiruvananthapuram is CPI's Bennet P. Abraham, who is from the Nadar community, another prominent caste in the constituency.
The women's group's attack on Tharoor comes after the minister complained to the election commissioner against CPI leader V.S. Sunil Kumar, accusing him of defamation.
"V.S. Sunil Kumar directly accused me of murdering my wife (in a channel show). Such outrageous falsehood is both defamatory and a violation of section 1(2) of the model code of conduct. In this case, the individual and the channel are both culpable since the remark was made as a part of organised discussion that the channel made no effort to stop, criticise or edit out," Tharoor said in his complaint.
27 women candidates in fray for LS polls in Kerala
Posted by Unknown | Friday, March 28, 2014 | Posted in Wonder Women
Thiruvananthapuram: A record number of 27 women candidates, including two each from mainstream parties like Congress, CPI(M) and BJP, are among 269 candidates contesting in the 20 Lok Sabha constituencies in Kerala going to polls on April 10.
Though majority of them are either independents or belonging to minor parties, it is the first time in the state’s poll history that the number of women candidates is crossing the mark of 20. Fifteen women candidates contested the previous Lok Sabha polls in 2009 and 2004. The number was 13 in 1999 and 10 each in 1998, 1996 and 1991 elections, election commission sources said. The number was the lowest in the 1952, 1957 and 1962 polls–only one woman candidate was in the fray during these years.
In the coming polls, Congress has fielded two women leaders Bindhu Krishna in Attingal and KA Sheeba in Alathur.The opposition LDF has opted for veteran leader and former minister PK Sreemathi in Kannur and PK Sainaba in Malappuram (both CPI(M). Senior BJP leaders Shobha Surendran and Girija Kumari are in the fray in Palakkad and Attingal respectively.
Journalist Anita Pratap and writer Sara Joseph, both representing Aam Aadmi Party are other prominent women candidates, seeking an entry into the lower House.
Pathanamthitta, where four women candidates are in the fray, has the highest participation of women. Wayanad, Malappuram, Ponnani, Palakkad, Chalakkudy and Ernakulam constituencies have one woman candidate each, while no women have figured in the candidate list of Kasaragod, Kozhikode, Kottayam and Kollam constituencies. Though women outnumber men on the electoral rolls in the state, women representation has been very low in Kerala in electoral politics.
Though the state is known for its remarkable track record on social development and literacy, many women leaders feel that they do not get their deserved share. Since 1952, Kerala has sent only seven women leaders to the Lok Sabha.
Susheela Gopalan, AK Premajam, Sathi Devi and CS Sujatha of CPI(M), Bhargavi Thankappan of CPI and Savithri Lakshman of Congress are among the prominent women who represented the state in Parliament. Out of the total electorate of 2,42,51,942 in the state, 1,25,70,439 are women.
Countering Israel Boycotts, With Glamour
Posted by Unknown | Saturday, March 1, 2014 | Posted in People, Wonder Women
























